Recognizing where you are not wanted and letting go.

The body has an internalized monitor

that beeps and goes off when it is in a space it is not wanted.

The natural instinct

is to make excuse after excuse as to why,

this person surely must want you because they have done A,B,C

If anything, it is the ego that is protecting itself from rejection.

It is easier to hold onto someone who doesn't want you than to let go

It has little to do with being faithful but more to do with self-value

More being able to understand

that you deserve better

and deserve clean pure cut love

That does not come with confusion and feeling wanted

When you value yourself

and will not go seeking affection

in a person who clearly wants to give it on their terms.

You know your worth

It's so easy to get caught in a cycle

of "getting little".

being okay with the little you get from this person.

Convincing yourself it okay

It is not okay. I

t is not okay to feel unwanted.

It is not okay to convince yourself it will get better.

You deserve better.

That through thick and thin love

comes with wedding vows.

Not a situationship

and not a confused boyfriend

who doesn’t know what they want

We have been programmed

to believe love is all enduring.

Yes it is,

with a husband

and a man who will love you RIGHT.

Not a boy whose confused

QUIT MAKING EXCUSES!

Get up and GO!

I mean get up and go in search of your true husband!

Enough with the

"He didn't talk to me all of yesterday becz he was drinking"

"He speaks down on me when he is upset"

"He is just confused"

God is not the author of confusion.

He will not give you a confused partner,

nor one that will make you feel less than what you are!

We need to quit playing these games!

Quit accepting less than what we KNOW we deserve.

Quit making excuses and start living purpose!

It is hard to kick a bad habit.

If that boy/girl is a bad habit,

kick the habit!

Tear stained face and all, walk!!

You will be okay!